**WARNING** If you are offened easily by racial stuff DO NOT READ!
Well setting here yesterday I had a BAD experience I need to get off my chest.........and every one by now knows that I was not in the best of moods......but I digress......Minding my own business and one of the guards comes in a stands around like he has something to say....so I ask "hey what's up?" to which he replies "Ah not much, Hey I wanted to know are you married?" I reply "NO".....He says "Well I was wondering if you were married? If not would you like to go out? I think your hot! The girl in the office said she thought you wasn't seeing anybody!" Ok to which I reply "Well yes I have a fella he lives with me....fairly good guy. Sorry but I have to decline for 3 reasons......1. I am seeing someone; 2. you are younger than me...I don't like to date people under 35 3. I don't date outside my race."
OK HERE'S WHERE IT GETS UGLY! He is younger than me around 25 or 26 and black........OK B4 anyone gets there panties in a wad I want to explain this.....I AM NOT RACISTS! I would NOT date a Mexican, Asian, or any other out side the Caucasian realm. NOT A BAD THING JUST MY PREFERANCE! I have lots of black friends back home and they are all great I just don't go outside my comfort zone.
OK on with what he had to say....He then proceeds to say "Oh you are one of those!" So I said "One of those what?" he says "You know you are prejudice." To which I get very angry and say "Let me tell you something big boy....I am not one of THOSE....but I am the one of THESE which is the kind of person who will not hide behind a lie you asked me out and I gave you the reasons why I would not go out with you so that there would be NO confussion or reason to believe that later you might have a chance if I split with my guy! You came into MY OFFICE asked me out and then insult me.....I don't think so buddy. I was trying to be honest and you took it wrong so the BEST thing you can do is carry your punk butt back to your guard shack and DO NOT Talk to me again unless you have business to talk about!"
oh and to add insult to all of this......Talked to the girl in the office and asked her why she didn't tell him the truth about me seeing someone and she says "I never told him that you weren't seeing anyone and I didn't tell him you weren't married. By the way HE JUST GOT MARRIED 2 WEEKS AGO!" so WTF.......not only is he a DICK but he is a CHEATIN DICK!
So here are the questions I pose to you......was it a racial comment that I made.......was it wrong to be honest.....just because I choose to date people of my own race does that make me an ugly person......
what do yall think????
posted by Guvnah @ 1:03 AM
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